Celebrating Pride Month As An Intersex Lesbian

As the vibrant colors of rainbow flags adorn the streets and a wave of excitement fills the air, I am reminded that June is not just another month—it’s LGBTQ+ Pride Month! This annual celebration holds a special place in my heart as a married intersex lesbian. It is a time for me to reflect on my journey, embrace my true self, and share the love and pride that have shaped my life.

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Discovering My Identity

Growing up, I always felt different. I questioned my place in a world that seemed to be divided into neat boxes of male and female. It was during my adolescence that I came across the term “intersex” and realized that I was part of a diverse and beautiful community. Finally, there was a word that resonated with my experiences and helped me understand my own identity.

Accepting myself wasn’t easy. Society often fails to acknowledge the existence and struggles of intersex individuals, leaving us feeling marginalized and invisible. But with time, I learned to embrace my uniqueness as a source of strength. It was through this acceptance that I found the courage to step into the world as my authentic self.

Falling in Love

Love knows no boundaries, and it was no different for me. I met my soulmate, my pillar of support, the person who sees me for who I am and loves me unconditionally. Together, we embarked on a beautiful journey, navigating the challenges that came our way.

Our love story is not defined by gender norms or societal expectations. Instead, it is a testament to the power of connection and understanding. In each other’s arms, we found solace and celebration. We transcended the confines of conventional labels, choosing to define ourselves on our own terms.

Marriage and Pride

When the day came for us to exchange vows, we knew that our commitment went beyond the boundaries set by society. It was a celebration of love, resilience, and the freedom to express ourselves authentically. Our wedding was a beautiful testament to the power of love and an affirmation of our right to be recognized as equals.

Pride Month gives us an opportunity to honor our journey as a married couple, but it also serves as a reminder of the ongoing fight for equality. It is a time to celebrate the progress we have made and to stand in solidarity with those who continue to face discrimination and adversity.

Finding Community

One of the most incredible aspects of LGBTQ+ Pride Month is the sense of community it fosters. It is a time when we come together to uplift one another, share our stories, and amplify our voices. Through events, parades, and gatherings, we find solace in knowing that we are not alone on this journey.

Pride Month has given me the chance to connect with fellow intersex individuals, lesbians, and members of the LGBTQ+ community as a whole. We share our experiences, offer support, and find strength in the unity we forge. Together, we strive for a world that embraces diversity, equality, and inclusivity.


As I proudly raise the rainbow flag during LGBTQ+ Pride Month, I am reminded of the battles fought and the victories won. As a married intersex lesbian, I celebrate not only my personal journey but also the collective progress we have made as a community.

This month is a powerful reminder that love knows no boundaries and that it is our diversity that makes us beautiful. Let us continue to push for equality, acceptance, and understanding. May we embrace our authentic selves, build bridges of love, and pave the way for a future where everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, can live proudly and authentically. Happy Pride Month to all!

Remember, love is love, and together, we are unstoppable.

Thomas Slatin - Lesbianing Together


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